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Hi, my name is Katherine Tapley-Milton, the Cat Guru at LifeTips.
Enjoy these 637 Cat tips. More added weekly! Coping with Kitty's Behavior Problems | Dec 04, 2008
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The Goofiness of CatsCats can be pretty funny creatures, but there is a method to the madness. First of all, cats sleep for the majority of the day (sometimes close to 20 hours) so, for the few hours that they are awake they have A LOT of excess energy to burn. Which is why, when you are sound asleep at 3:00am, your cat may suddenly decide it needs to run laps around your house at mach 10, stop suddenly and pretend like nothing happened, and then do the same thing again, but this time counter-clockwise. It is also why cats engage in a number of odd behaviors during the day. Another reason that cat's act "strange" is that they are practicing their predatory skills. An activity that may look very odd to you (like jumping from the floor to a 4ft high banister, stopping on a dime and then sitting there for a minute before jumping back down) may very well be your cat honing it's hunting and survival skills (this is also why they will make an obstacle course out of various parts of your house and run it a few times in a row before settling down to a nice cat nap). As to why cats sometimes knead, (when they look like they're running in place if they are de-clawed or when the pull at the carpet, a blanket or your tummy if they have claws) this is a vestige of when they were kittens and were still nursing. In order to get more milk from a mother cat kittens will knead the area around her teat while they are suckling. This helps the flow of milk to the teat and enables them to consume more. Once cats grow up they sometimes still do this just as a comfort activity, perhaps it reminds them of mom. How does a cat show affection?Despite the common misconception, cats are not showing affection when they rub against you with the back of their head and the rest of their body. It’s just cat instinct to mark you with their scent; they are actually claiming you as their territory. The only time a cat is truly showing affection is when they bump you with the front part of their head, known as head bonks, a cat behavior also called "bunting". He might rub along your chin and nose, engaging in the bunting behavior that began as a kitten when he’d rub around his mother’s head seeking to nurse. Some cats get so carried away that they even drool. The next time your cat jumps onto the bed and seems to butt you in the face with the top of his head, don’t get irritated, realize the loving compliment your kitty just paid you. Keeping Kitty off the Kitchen CounterIn all of my years with cats, ONLY the cats who regarded the counter tops as ’uninteresting’ would stay off of them. If you react when the cat jumps on the counter, they will learn to do that to get your attention. It’s best to make them realize there is nothing up there they want to see. When you are preparing food, or cooking in the kitchen, allow you new cat to see what you are doing. Either place a chair nearby so their eyes are at counter top level, or just lift the cat up to see there is nothing they are interested in. If you are cooking something they like, throw tiny tidbits or kitty treats on the chair for them. This will teach them to stay on the chair to get what they want, and it will keep them out from under your feet. Declawed Cat Bites, Behaves Aggressively You may or may not be able to train your cat to bite less. First, she must feel as comfortable as possible - she's biting because she feels threatened. Second, you introduce something that makes her uncomfortable ONLY when she misbehaves. At the exact moment that she tries to bite, use a spray bottle to mist her (do not spray directly in her eyes). Alternatively, you can shake a can with a few coins in it or make another startling noise. Third, if she is biting when she interacts with you, and it is pleasurable for her (such as petting or playing), stop interacting with her immediately. These tactics will require a lot of patience and may never completely stop the biting behavior. For future cats, please consider alternatives to declawing. There are many scratching posts available and it is easier to train a cat to use one than to teach a cat not to bite. You can also cut the claws or apply "Soft Paws" or another claw covering as needed to protect your furnishings. Mouse toysThe best cheap kitty toys (other than homemade ones) are rabbit fur mice. I have yet to meet a cat that didn’t just love a rabbit fur mouse. Cardboard boxesEmpty cardboard boxes are great for kitties. You can attach some of their toys to it, use them as kitty toy boxes, cut doors in them for a Hideout, or put multiple boxes together and build a BIG Kitty Condo. A Mournful CryA cat is looking for companionship or attention when she gives a series of short mournful cries... ones that will tear at your heart strings. This is one of the more obvious cries for humans to understand. Time Out for KittyTo stop Kitty`s bad behaviour in the house, start by picking Kitty up and confining him for 15 minutes. This could be in the bathroom, a closet, or even outside. When Kitty returns, if the bad behaviour continues, confine Kitty in his Time Out place 30 minutes. Limit Your ReactionCats have a distinct motivation for all that they do; when you understand the ’why’ of your cat’s actions, you can adjust your reaction. Kitty Bites Me While Petting HerSome cat owners are familiar with this cat behavior problem: you’re petting Kitty, she seems to like it because she is purring and suddenly, CHOMP! Her teeth are lodged in the flesh of your hand. The general consensus on this problem is that the cat becomes over stimulated during petting, and can’t quite figure out how to tell you to stop. The best thing to do is DON’T PANIC. Slowly withdraw your hand, then move away from the cat. If the cat is in your lap, pull your hands away and allow it to retreat, or stand up and let the cat jump to the floor. Learn how to recognize the signals that precede biting: wildly flicking tail, ears laid back, their pupils dilating, or their body tensing. When any of these are noticed, stop touching the animal and allow it to move away on its own. When training a new pet, start with short time periods of petting then slowly increase the length of time. Always back away slowly when the cat shows signs of frustration. Then there are some cats that prefer other methods of human interaction besides petting; for those animals try playing with them more and petting them less. Modifying Chewing BehaviorI have often been told that when my cat chews on electrical wires, I should rub Bitter Apple or Tabasco sauce on the wires to stop him. I quickly discovered that he liked these treatments. As a last resort (and also to help "repair" the damaged wires), I wrapped the wires in black electrical tape; to my surprise, my cat soon stopped the unwanted behavior. Why? Well, it seems that he did not like the taste of the tape, or how the glue felt in his mouth. You can get black electrical tape anywhere (some stores even carry various colors), and it`s inexpensive. You don`t need to wrap every single centimeter of your wires; leaving a little space between wraps will give you the same result. Kitty Nipping at Elbow and FeetFor no apparent reason, your Kitty walks up to you nips you. Of course you react with a loud ’OW!’ When to NOT use Corrective MeasuresNever use Corrective Measures if you don’t actually catch Kitty in the act of misbehaving. Using a Corrective Measure after the fact will not stop the unwanted behavior, because Kitty doesn’t associate the Corrective Measure with the unwanted behavior problem. Kitty will just be confused & stressed out if corrected after the fact, and will just cause further cat behavior problems. A Sticky Solution to Shredded SofaIf your cat insists on clawing your favorite chair or couch, put double sided tape in the area she prefers. The cats don’t like this and they will not return. Have a scratching post nearby made of wood or corrugated cardboard sprinkled with catnip. Controling Kitty´s PawsTo teach your kitty where she can & cannot put her paws, gently take a hold of her paw and remove it from the no-no area. Then put the paw where you want her to be. For instance, when my cats put their paws on the table during mealtime, I gently encompass the paw in my hand and put it back on their place mat in their chair. (See Keeping Kitty off the Table). Cats naturally don’t like their paws to be held, so this is a gentle means of teaching them. Be persistent, and consistent, and they will learn what you want. Catch Him in the Act When MarkingYou’ve cleaned his previous markings, and the markings of other cats. You’ve applied a citrus scented solution to further deter your kitty’s marking behavior. The Neurotically Clean Cat Cats find their own toys...We love to spend that dollar or two to bring a new toy home for kitty. The colors and shapes just call our name and demand we take them home. However, most kitties have their own ideas what constitutes a great toy. Some of the toys my cats have found on their own include: Motivation is the key to behaviorCats aren’t quite as complicated as humans. Cats always have a specific motivation for all they do, and most of the time that motivation is based on the instinct to survive. When you understand their motivation, you can alter their behavior. 4 Tips about Cats Clawing FurnitureFrustrated about the cat clawing your furniture or carpets? Here are a few facts and ’how to’ hints that may help: 1) Clawing has a dual purpose for the cat: It’s just cat instinct to work their claws and mark their territory. Once a cat claws something their scent is left on that object so they will come back and claw it again. 2) If you buy a carpet or sisal covered scratching post or cat tree, rub it down with catnip and Kitty may find this is better than your carpet or furniture. 3) You can trim a cats nails which will lessen the damage they can cause without having to declaw them. Special cat trimmers are available at your local pet supply store, but when trimming don’t trim too close to the pink part of their claws, you could seriously hurt the cat. 4) Everytime you catch the cat clawing something they shouldn’t, spray them with a special water bottle (tap water) you should already have handy. This method used consistently should minimize the number of times they claw and helpfully eliminate the unwanted cat behavior problem. Cat FightsMultiple Cat households are familiar with occasional, or unfortunately, frequent fights between their pets. Most of the time, I don’t take too serious of action when these happen. Cats are territorial and an occasional spat is expected. However, when the behavior becomes the norm, you can take steps to correct this. The following is a list of things that I do, along with some ideas from Friskies Cat food: Preventing Midnight Romps in the BedYou are in the middle of a good night’s sleep when Kitty decides that he wants some kind of attention: affection, playing, scratching, or any number of other things. Fight the tempatation to sling him across the room; cats are nocturnal animals and he may not understand that you need to sleep at night. When Kitty meows meows meowsMore about cat vocalizations - Some cats vocalize more than others (e.g. Siamese), but all do it to get your attention. It can be cute, but it also can turn into a problem, especially if it occurs at night or early in the morning when everyone is trying to sleep. The meowing may be a sign that the cat is in discomfort or has a medical problem. Cats meow as a form of communication, as well. However, most cats meow simply because they are bored and want some human interaction. The solution is to provide the cat with an entertaining environment with more cat toys and possibly another cat to play with. One Last Tip: It is not wise to pay attention to the constant crying, as this will only encourage the cat to continue and will create an ongoing cat behavior problem. After all, all she wants is your attention. Growls and ScreamsA cat is giving a defensive call when they ’growl;’ a quiet, low pitched, tone deep in the throat. They may or may not include a ’rumbling, rattling’ quality to the growl. Rabbit Fur MiceThe only cat I’ve ever known who does not like a rabbit fur mouse, is the cartoon character, Garfield. Control over CuriosityCats are curious. If you eliminate the curiosity, you can control their reactions. Take your new pet around the house showing them the tops of armoires, entertainment stands and appliances. Make sure you let them smell everything really well. Once the curiosity is elminated, they won’t jump on these places. If they do jump up on a counter, there is something that has grabbed their interest. Eliminate the source of their interest, and they won’t jump up there anymore. Catnip Place SittingDon’t like the "mess" made by catnip leaves? Try buying a small place-mat-size rug and only sprinkle the catnip leaves on the rug. Your cat will enjoy his catnip in style and will eventually associate "play time" with the rug (which incidentally should be taken up after an hour of play and put away until next time.) Love SongsCats are expressing their affection when they use a call that sounds like a high pitched meow mixed with their purring. Queens use it to call their young; males use it when approaching a female in heat; and altered cats will use it to call their masters when the cat is lonely. Survival Instinct-make it work for youA cat’s motivation for most of his behaviors and actions is based on self survival and species survival. Catering to this instinct will create a more harmonious relationship with you and your cat. Keeping Kitty´s Toys FunCats are similar to humans in that they will loose interest in toys after a while. Natural ToysCats have a natural curiosity about plants and living things. Some of the natural toys my cats have loved include: green corn shuck/husks, raw green beans, the outer leaves of a head of lettuce, the stalks and leaves of cauliflower and broccli. Yes, they would play with them, and even eat them. Why does my kitty rub on my legs?Cats have scent glands on the back of their head, the base of their tail (where it connects to the body), and in the pads of their front feet. When they rub against you, or anything else, they are placing their scent on you. They are marking you as their territory. The same is true for when they ’scratch’ their front feet. Stop the bitingI am a firm believer in understanding a behavior, before I try to alter it. If your kitten is biting, understand why-first-before you try to stop her. If it is just play time, I don’t try to correct it unless it continues for more than three weeks. After that, when the kitten bites, gently grab their bottom jaw so that you are ’biting back.’ Don’t let go until the kitten is beginning to panic. This is one way to gently let them know you are the boss, and biting is not a good thing to do to you. Recycling old toys into new ones!We came up with these ideas because we wanted to recycle our cat’s old toys. Give Kitty her own special chairYour new Kitty wants to sit on the sofa, but you don’t want her to. Don’t yell and scream at her, cats are easily offended, and never forget a grudge. Instead, create her own special chair or corner of the sofa. To do this, put a pillow down where you want her to sleep, then put a fuzzy blanket on the pillow, or one of your dirty shirts, or whatever it she likes to sleep on. It can be on a chair, a window sill, cubby hole in the book shelf, a perch on top of the entertainment center, etc. Then gently place her in the new ’bed’ giving her love and positive reinforcement to be in ’her’ spot. Whenever she jumps on furniture you don’t want her to be on, gently pick her up and place her in her special spot. Be sure to wash the blanket as often as you do your own bedsheets. If you allow your pets to have their very own special place, you can train them to avoid other more valuable furniture. Stop the Outdoor Cats from MarkingTo stop outdoor cats from marking your belongings, you must first clean them with more than plain soap and water. You will need to use an enzymatic cleaner or one of the formulas from Litter Box Blues:Odor Removers. Where to put the Scratching postTo train your kitty to use a scratching post, try putting it right in front of the furniture he scratches the most. Rub the post down with catnip. Once Kitty is using the Post instead of the Furniture, you can slowly move it to it’s permanent location. Many cats enjoy scratching and stretching after a nap or after they’ve eaten. Because scratching is also an emotional outlet, many cats will want to use the post when their owner comes home or as they anxiously await dinner. Chirping sounds from KittyWith un-altered females, a ’chirping’ type of cat vocalization is a signal she’s in heat (ovulating and ready for a mate.) They may also howl mournfully, if they are isolated from males. Another possible reason for a cat’s rapid clacking of it’s teeth, is if it’s excited by the prospect of a kill - I’ve heard this clicking sound when my cat has her eyes on a bird which has wandered close to the window. Paying the Cat Tax as Relaxation TriggerA Relaxation Response can be compared to smelling food and feeling hungry, or hearing a noise at night, and feeling fear. These are trained responses that happen automatically. Psycho-Cybernetics uses this automatic response to train your body to relax with a given trigger. Research shows how interacting with animals can reduce your blood pressure and slow down your heart rate. We also discussed Paying the Cat Tax: taking time out of your busy day to spend one on one time with your kitty. We suggested this time be right as you enter your home after being gone all day at work. If you Pay the Cat Tax everyday, in a short while, your mind and body will learn to relax at the site of your cat. You won`t have to force the relaxation, because your cat, in your subconscious, will become associated with rest. Spending time with your cat will become the trigger for your Relaxation Response. After that you will be better able to proceed onto deeper relaxation and other stress management techniques will have more success. For your cat or kitten, petting reduces his stress of being alone all day, reaffirms his importance to you, and creates the desire-to-please-you within your kitty. This will redirect your mind and body away from the stress of work and will reduce your Kitty's stress of missing you all day. Holding a CatOnce your new older cat is accustomed to you, you can start the process of holding him. First sit in the floor with him and gently pull him into your lap. Don’t fight him! If he struggles to get away, let him go. Try this a couple of times a day. Eventually, he will learn that you aren’t trying to ’capture’ him. The next step is to hold the cat so he is in control. To do that: with one hand hold his back feet, then hold his front feet with the other hand. When you have him secure in your arms, slowly let go of his paws and allow him to ’stand’ on your hands. This will allow your cat to feel in control, while you are holding him. With practice, you can allow him to stand on one forearm, while petting him with the other hand. How to lift a catApproach a cat slowly, and do not grab it. Ideally, let it approach you. Begin your contact with a gentle stroking, then when the cat is used to your touch, pick it up. Guru’s note: This is a good start to holding a cat for carrying a cat. Eventually, you need to put the cat’s front feet in one hand and the back feet in the other, and allow the cat to ’stand’ in your hands. Entertaining with bird feeders & bird bathsIndoor kitties love to sit in a window and watch the creatures outdoors. Other Ways to Hold a CatMost cats love to be held, and there is more than one way to show your cat affection. Laser Pointers and FlashlightsOne of my cats’ favorite toys is a laser pointer, or a small, narrow beam flashlight. They will chase the laser point until they pant. Kitty is acting weird..If your cat has been fixed, she will not be able to reproduce, and should not be going into heat. When a female is spayed, they remove all the reproductive organs, uterus, everything... Maybe there’s been some sort of change in your home that’s causing some stress for your cat? It doesn’t take much change to upset a cat’s routine. You might want to give your kitty a little more attention to assure her that she is loved. If you still think she’s in heat, you may want to talk to your vet about it. More tips on bitingSome older cats will feel the need to test you. They will bite, and even attack your hand to see how well you trust them. DON’T PANIC! If the cat is not drawing blood, they may be testing you. Try to leave your hand in place until the cat withdraws, then slowly pull your hand back. If a cat’s ears are laid back, they hiss or growl, then the cat is angry or afraid and you should slowly back away. Jerking your hand back will seem like an attack to the cat. Citrus Rinds as Protectors in SoilBury citrus rinds in the soil of your house plants to keep cats from digging. Orange, grapefruit, lemon, lime rinds are all unpopular with felines. Kitty Toy Box or Cat EntertainmentChildren have a box to keep their toys in, your cat or kitten should have a place for their cat toys too. It helps you keep track of their cat toys & to check for safety hazards, and provides another fun game for your pet. Periodically, once a day may drive you nuts, you should collect Kitty’s toys into one place. This helps the tidy appearance of your home, but it also give Kitty something to do: drag another cat toy out of the box. By gathering the cat toys up, you can inspect them for safety hazards such as loose strings Kitty could accidently swallow. Any type of container will do for a ’toy box.’ When choosing a ’toy box’ for kittens, consider making it shallow, so it is easier for your kitten to pull things out. For an adult cat, the size of the box is not as important, and don’t be surprised if your cat plays inside the toy box as much as the toys in the box, just like children. You can think of the toy box as "cat entertainment". Favorite Hiding PlacesSometimes kitties will hide to overcome a stressful situation, and sometimes they end up hiding because the space they were investigating got closed up. Some favorite hiding places include: Another way to Stop the BitingYou have determined that your cat/kitten is just playing when he bites you, now what can you do to stop this unwanted behavior. More tips on holding a catMost cats enjoy being held, but only on their own terms. Carpet Couch PadsOne of our readers suggested a unique scratching pad idea: have couch arm covers made of carpet that extend to the floor and cover your kitty’s favorite scratching spot. Rub this down with catnip, and once Kitty is accustomed to using this piece of carpet, you can move it to a scratching post. Cover soil in plant pot to deter diggingTo stop your cat from digging in your house plants, you can cut a strip of ’chicken wire’ to fit around the top of the pot, up to the base of the plant. Use duct tape or florists tape to attach the wire to the outside of the pot. Catnip ToysMany of the cat toys sold at pet stores are categorized by those that have catnip in them and those that do not. The ones that have the catnip in them frequently are more expensive than those that do not. Scratch Pads, instead of PostsSome cats prefer to scratch/claw a textured surface that is on the ground. Facts of Marking/SprayingCats mark their territory by ’spraying’ their urine on objects: car tires, bushes, lawn furniture, house doors, gates, rocks, electrical poles... etc. In some cases, they will use their solid waste as a territorial marker, also. Try Rocks in your plants!To keep Kitty from digging in your house plants, purchase inexpensive river stones or collect attractive stones and cover the dirt in the top of the planter. The rocks won’t hurt the plant, and will allow water and fertilzer through to the soil. Citrus Scented Products in GardensCats don’t like the smell of citrus fruit, so it is an excellent deterrent for gardens and plants. Labored or painful criesIndications that a cat is sick or hurting include: Hide and SeekKitty lost his favorite toy, and you bought/found him a new one. Cats will learn from each otherA circumstance where the student taught the master... HissingWhen a cat hisses, its whole face and head pull back from its mouth: the whiskers, ears, everything pulls back away from the mouth. Feather ToysThe best toys for cats are usually the homemade variety. Lots of feathers usually do the trick. But remember to NOT pick up feathers from the outdoors. Craft stores as well as pet supply stores carry sanitized feathers. They are safe for your cat as long as you remember to not let your cat eat them. Marking, UI, and UrinatingThe difference between a cat spraying or marking and eliminating fluid waste is based on the position of the body. To spray or mark their territory, cats back up to the object, and remain standing to release the urine. They are also known to wiggle their tale while doing this. Cats will squat very low to urinate, and they will then scratch and cover it up. Cats with Urinary Infection will try to squat to urinate, but then will rise up as the urine leaves the body, since it is causing physical pain and discomfort. Cats do not stand up to urinate, even with UI. If a cat is standing up while releasing urine, that is a marking behavior. Add Compost to outdoor litter boxIf the neighborhood cats are using your gardens as a litter box, you don’t necessarily need to worry about your plants if it is solid waste. Just add some vegetable kitchen scraps to the ’litter box’ area and compost it all into the soil. The composting prevents the strays in my neighborhood from using that area again. Keeping Kitty off the Table at MealtimeYour Kitty wants to be a part of the family, and mealtime is especially attractive: everyone is together, the smell of food, and everything is not quite out of Kitty’s reach. Moth balls outdoors to deter diggingAn old trick of detering outdoor cats from digging or marking in your garden is to sprinkle moth balls throughout the garden. Cat BitingYou may think that it is cute when you play with your cat and it is "killing its prey", which is just part of it’s cat instincts, but those cat bites can become very serious. It’s best to train your cat to confine his biting to more appropriate times such playing with toys, and not human hands. Although you understand your cats behavior, human visitors to your home may not. You can avoid a nasty situation by training your cat to not bite humans.
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